Mararka qaarkood, internetku wuxuu u ekaan karaa meel cabsi badan. Wax kasta oo aad soo dhejiso, waxaa jiri doona dad eegaya oo ka faalloon doona. Iyo, dad badan ayaa dareema ammaan aad u badan oo sheegaya waxyaabo aysan caadiyan yeelin marka ay hor fadhiyaan shaashadda halkii ay ka hori lahaayeen qof dhab ah. Gaar ahaan haddii nooca warbaahinta bulshada ee ay isticmaalayaan ay tahay mid bixisa dareen qarsoodi ah^{(sense of anonymity)} . 

Waxaa jira habab markaad ka faalloonayso internetka, in kastoo, ay kuu oggolaan karto waayo-aragnimo aan walwal lahayn. Xitaa haddii qof uu si ula kac ah isku dayayo inuu wax u kiciyo, ma aha inaad u ogolaato naftaada inaad la qabsato. Waxaa jira cadaadis ku filan adduunka mar hore, internetku maaha inuu noqdo il kale oo laga helo.

Ka fakar intaadan dhajin^{(Think Before You Post)}

Kahor intaadan samayn nooc kasta oo qoraal ah internetka, waxay ku caawin kartaa inaad ka hor ka fikirto nooca jawaabta ay keeni karto. Haddii aad soo dhejinayso shay la xidhiidha mawduucyo lagu muransan yahay, sida siyaasadda^(politics) ama diinta, waxay aad ugu badan tahay inaad heli doonto jawaabo cadho leh. Markaa go'aanso inay taasi ku habboon tahay waxa aad rabto inaad dhejiso iyo in kale.

Haddii aad ka jawaabayso wax qof ka faallooday, ka fikir waxa aad ku kordhinayso wada hadalka iyo haddii ay lagama maarmaan tahay. Inaad wax ka doorato waxaad tiraahdo waxay kaa caawin doontaa inaad iska ilaaliso falcelinta xunxun ee dadka kale. 

Haddi Aad Karto, Iska Iilow^{(If You Can, Ignore It)}

Inta badan xaaladaha aad ku aragto boostada ama faallooyinka runtii kaa dhigaya gees gees, waxa ugu fiican ee la sameeyo waa inaadan ku lug yeelan. Waxaad naftaada ku badbaadin doontaa walaac badan markaad ka fogaato inaad ka jawaabto. 

Inta badan, ma istaahisho dadaalka. La socoshada ama xannibista^(blocking) qofka waxay sidoo kale kaa caawin doontaa inaad iska ilaaliso waxyaabahan oo kale oo aadan rabin inaad aragto. Oo waxaad ku qaadan doontaa wakhti aad u yar inaad ka xanaaqdo waxa la dhajiyay. 

Sidoo kale niyada ku hay in ay aad u adag tahay in dhab ahaantii qof maskaxdiisa laga beddelo intarneedka. Sababtoo ah dabeecadda goobta, jawaab-celinta taban waxay badanaa xoojin doontaa oo kaliya caqiidada qof, oo uma badna inay soo baxaan iyada oo aan loo eegin macluumaadka aad bixiso. 

Marka ay dadku sameeyaan fikrado, waxay adeegsadaan eexda garashada si ay sidaas u sameeyaan, taas oo aan had iyo jeer ahayn mid ku salaysan macquul. Qofna kama dhaafo tan, markaa marka qoraal ama faallo aad ku khilaafto ay kugu abuurto falcelin, waxaad samayn kartaa beddelkeeda isku day inaad fahamto sababta ay sidaas kuu dareentay oo aad u dhaqaaqdo. 

Marka ay tahay inaad ka jawaabto^{(When You Should Respond)}

Waxaa jira waqtiyo, si kastaba ha ahaatee, marka wax laga jawaabo waxay noqon kartaa fikrad wanaagsan. Haddii aad bixin karto aragti qoto dheer ama macluumaad ay u badan tahay in qof uu ku qanco, markaas jawaabtaadu waxay dhab ahaantii noqon kartaa mid wax dhisi karta wada hadalka. 

Sidoo kale, haddii qof aad shakhsi ahaan u garanayso uu soo dhejiyay wax aanad ku raacsanayn, waxa laga yaabaa inay u badan tahay inay ku dhegaystaan. Qof aad taqaan ayaa kugula jira nooc ka mid ah shucuureed, sidaas darteed aad ayey ugu habboon yihiin inay tixgeliyaan jawaabtaada. Shisheeye dhammaystiran aad bay ugu yar tahay inuu daneeyo waxaad leedahay. 

Sida Looga Jawaabo Si Xeeldheer^{(How to Respond Tactfully)}

Markaa, haddii aad go'aansato inaad faallo ka bixiso, waxaa jira waxyaabo ay tahay inaad maskaxda ku hayso. Horta^(First) ha u ogolaan naftaada in aad aflagaado u guntato. Ma jiraan wax faa'iido ah oo laga helayo isticmaalkooda, dadkuna aad ayay u yar yihiin inay si dhab ah kuu qaataan. 

Xataa haddii uu qof ku caayo marka hore, halkii aad ka celin lahayd, waa inay calaamad u tahay inaad dib uga noqoto xaaladda. 

Isku day inaad ka digtoonaato ereyada aad isticmaasho marka aad jawaabta qorayso. Intarneedka, ma jiro wax cod ah, markaa way fududahay in arrimuhu si khaldan loo qaato. Haddii aad ka shakisan tahay in shay uu la kulmo jahawareer, isku day inaad si kale u qeexdo. Isticmaalka shucuurtu waxay sidoo kale faa'iido u yeelan kartaa xaaladahan si loo tuso dadka kale inaad si fiican ula jeedo. 

Sidoo kale isku day inaadan u soo bixin sidii is-hoosaysiin, haddii kale dadku kuma aqbali doonaan adiga. Inaad maskax furnaato waxay noqon kartaa habka ugu fiican ee aad u dhaqaaqdo, waase haddii qofka aad u jawaabayso aanu ahayn qof necbahay ama aanu kor u qaadin wax khatar ah. 

Sida loo arko Troll^{(How to Spot a Troll)}

Yeroo baay’ee adda addaa adda addaa ykn adda addaa adda addaa akka ta’e ibsaniiru. Mise, wax dan ah kama hayaan waxa aad leedahay oo taa beddelkeeda waxay si fudud u rabaan inay kula qasmaan. 

Waxaa jira dhowr siyaabood oo aad ku qabsan karto mid ka mid ah dadkaas, oo badanaa loo yaqaan 'troll', oo markaad sameyso waxa ugu fiican waa inaad iska saarto^(disengage) . Trolls ma rabaan wax dood ah oo run ah, kaliya waxay rabaan inay keenaan falcelin si ay u dareemaan inay ka sarreeyaan ama madadaalada. 

Haddii ay si joogto ah ugu celceliyaan isla hal-ku-dheggii ama weedho isku mid ah iyo in ka badan, sida haddii aysan xitaa akhrin waxaad tidhaahdo, waxay u badan tahay in la gooyo. Tani sidoo kale waa run haddii ay sameeyaan hyperbolic, sheegashooyinka duurjoogta ah iyo soo jeedinta ama isku dayaan inay isticmaalaan qodobka shoogga. 

Isticmaalka Akhlaaqda Faallooyinka^{(Using Comment Etiquette)}

Si aad walwalka uga ilaaliso isticmaalka internetka, isku day inaad ka qayb qaadato kaliya wadahadal wax ku ool ah oo wanaagsan ayaa kaa caawin kara kaliya maahan noloshaada internetka laakiin sidoo kale nolosha guud ahaan. 

Internetku waa abuur weyn oo kuu ogolaanaya inaad la hadasho kuwa kale, kuwaas oo, la'aanteed, aadan weligaa awoodin. Markaa iyadoo xaqiiqdii ay jiraan faa'iidooyin laga helayo isticmaalka internetka, waxaa sidoo kale jiri kara cillado. Raacitaanka talooyinkan waxay kaa caawin karaan inaad u gudubto jidkaaga. 

Internet Comment Etiquette to Improve Your Social Experience

Sometimes, the internet can seem like a рretty іntimidating place. Whаtever you post, there will be peoрlе lоoking at and commenting on it. And, a lot of people feel much safer saying things they normally wouldn’t when they’re sitting in front of a screen іnstead of in front of an actual person. Espeсially if the type of social media they’re using is one that provides a sense of anonymity. 

There are ways while commenting on the internet, though, that can allow you a stress-free experience. Even if someone is intentionally trying to instigate something, you don’t have to allow yourself to get caught up in it. There’s enough stress in the world already, the internet doesn’t have to be another source of it.

Think Before You Post

Before you make any type of post on the internet, it can help to think beforehand about what kind of response it may elicit. If you are posting something related to controversial topics, like politics or religion, it’s extremely likely you’ll get some angry responses. So decide whether or not that’s worth what you want to post.

If you’re replying to something someone has commented, think about what you’re adding to the conversation and if it’s necessary. Being selective about what you say will help you avoid outright negative reactions from others. 

If You Can, Ignore It

In most situations where you see a post or comment that really puts you on edge, the best thing to do is not engage. You’ll save yourself a lot of stress by refraining from responding. 

More often than not, it’s not worth the effort. Unfollowing or blocking the person will also help you to avoid these sorts of things you don’t want to see. And you’ll spend much less time being upset over what was posted. 

Also keep in mind that it’s extremely difficult to really change someone’s mind over the internet. Because of the nature of the platform, negative feedback usually will only reinforce someone’s beliefs, and they’re unlikely to budge no matter what information you provide. 

When people form opinions, they use cognitive biases to do so, which isn’t always necessarily based on logic. Nobody is exempt from this, so when a post or comment you disagree with creates a reaction in you, what you can do instead is try to understand why it made you feel that way and move on. 

When You Should Respond

There are times, however, when responding to something may be a good idea. If you can provide deeper insight or information someone is likely to be receptive to, then your response may actually be constructive to the conversation. 

Also, if someone you know in person has posted something you disagree with, they may be more likely to listen to you. Someone you know has some sort of emotional tie to you, so they are more apt to consider your response. A complete stranger is much less likely to care about what you have to say. 

How to Respond Tactfully

So, if you decide to post a comment, there are some things you should keep in mind. First of all, don’t allow yourself to stoop to insults. There’s nothing to gain from using them, and people are much less likely to take you seriously. 

Even if someone insults you first, instead of reciprocating, it should be a sign that you should step back from the situation. 

Try to be aware of the wording you use when typing a response. Over the internet, there’s no tone of voice, so it’s easy for things to be taken the wrong way. If you suspect something would come across as confusing, try wording it differently. Using emoticons can also be beneficial in these situations to show others you mean well. 

Also try not to come off as condescending, or people will not be as receptive towards you. Being open-minded can be your best course of action, as long as the person you’re replying to is not being hateful or promoting something dangerous. 

How to Spot a Troll

If you find yourself in a spat on the internet, it’s very likely you could be dealing with someone who just wants to argue for the sake of arguing. Or, they don’t care at all about what you have to say and instead simply want to mess with you. 

There are a few ways you can catch one of these people, usually called a troll, and once you do the best thing is to disengage. Trolls don’t want any true discussion, they just want to cause a reaction in order to feel superior or for entertainment. 

If they continually repeat the same rhetoric or phrase over and over, as if they aren’t even reading what you say, it’s likely a troll. This is also true if they make hyperbolic, wild claims and suggestions or try to use the shock factor. 

Using Comment Etiquette

In order to keep stress out of using the internet, trying to take part only in constructive and positive conversation can help you immensely not only in your online life but also life in general. 

The internet is a great creation that allows you to talk with others who, without it, you never would have been able to. So while there are definitely benefits from using the internet, there can also be some pitfalls. Following these tips can help you navigate your way through. 

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