Shukaansiga khadka tooska^{(Online Dating)} ah waa mid ka mid ah isticmaalka ugu badan ee internetka. Ka sokow isticmaalka internetka ee shaqadeena, ciyaarista ciyaaraha, wax iibsiga, iwm., malaayiin dad ah ayaa u isticmaala si ay u helaan jacaylka noloshooda. Iyadoo shabakadaha xiriirka bulshada sida Facebook iyo Instagram ay sidoo kale door muhiim ah ka ciyaaraan shukaansiga online-ka, waxaa sidoo kale jira shabakado shukaansi oo gaar ah. Tirada shabakadaha sida dhabta ah maalinba maalinta ka dambeysa way sii kordhayaan, sidaas darteedna waxay kordhinayaan tirada khayaanada shukaansiga.

Kharashyada Shukaansiga ee Online^{(Online Dating Scams)} -ka ah ayaa maalmahan soo badanaya, kuwa wax is-daba-marintu waa kuwo caqli badan. Ma aha in aad doqon tahay oo sidaas aad ku heshay fadeexad, laakiin haa mid runtii iska ilaalin kartaa khiyaanadan oo kale adigoo ah feejignaan dheeri ah.

Khayaanada, gaar ahaan kuwa ragga khiyaameeya waxay inta badan beegsadaan dumarka da'da dhexe ah iyo gaar ahaan kuwa lacag fiican haysta. Wadahadalkooda farmasiga ah, waxay marka hore isku dayi doonaan inay ku cajab galiyaan oo ay kuu soo dhowaadaan ka dibna si tartiib tartiib ah ayay uga qaadi doonaan dhammaan hantidaada. Kiisku dhab ahaantii wuxuu la mid yahay khiyaanada dumarka sidoo kale. Haddii aad u malaynayso in nin kaliya uu khiyaaneeyo gabdhaha / hablaha, waa khuraafaad. Gabdhaha^(Girls) ama dumarka ayaa si siman ugu lug leh sida online shukaansi khiyaano.

In this article, waxaan ka hadli doonaa oo ku saabsan dhowr talooyin kuwaas oo kaa caawin kara in aad aqoonsato scammer on online shukaansi websites.

Talooyin lagu ogaanayo khayaanada shukaansiga onlaynka ah

Si taxadar leh u daawo profile-ka

Profile-ka ayaa run ahaantii sheegay wax walba. Haddii aad ka taxadarto, aad bay u fududahay in la ogaado profile been abuur ah. Si sax ah u hubi faahfaahin kasta, sida goobtooda shaqada, qoyskooda, iwm. Khayaanada sida caadiga ah waxay isku dayaan inay kugu sasabtaan maalkooda, markaasay ku dhejiyaan sawirada guri aad u weyn iyo baabuur qaali ah iwm. Tusaale ahaan, guryo waaweyn, baabuur qaali ah, iyo kuwo kale oo badan. Tan oo dhan waa in ay ku siiso aragti ah in nin/gabadh taajir ah aysan ku khiyaami karin/ku khiyaameyn karin. Waxay inta badan sheegtaan inay ka shaqeeyaan dalal shisheeye ama inay yihiin ciidan milatari ama ay isticmaalaan shaqooyinka kale ee lagu kalsoon yahay.

Daawo sawirada

Sawiradu^(Photos) dhab ahaantii waa qaabka ugu fiican ee lagu hubinayo in qofku yahay tuuganimo iyo in kale. Si taxadar leh u hubi dhammaan sawiradooda oo waxaad ogaan kartaa inay yihiin sawiro dhab ah oo morphed ah. Si taxadar leh u eeg meelaha ay ku yaalaan sawirada oo arag haddii ay ku haboon tahay u dhawaanshahooda. Sidoo kale, hubi haddii sawiradaas laga heli karo meel kasta oo kale oo internetka ah. Soo deji^(Download) sawirkooda profile ama sawir kasta oo kale oo la soo galiyay isticmaalna raadinta sawirka Google .

Kuuma soo diri doonaan sawiro, kuma iman doonaan wada sheekaysiga fiidiyowga

Khayaanada kuuma soo diri doonaan sawiradooda mana soo geli doonaan wada sheekeysiga muuqaalka sidoo kale. Sababtoo ah waxay isticmaalayaan sawirro muuqaal ah ama sawir qof kale u isticmaalaya si sharci darro ah.

Aad bay u degdeg badan yihiin

Khayaanada noocan oo kale ah aad bay u degdeg badan yihiin. Dhowr maalmood oo saaxiibtinimadaada ah, waxay bilaabi doonaan inay ku jeclaadaan oo ay ku xiisaan. Jumlad kastaa waxay ku bilaaban doontaa ereyada sida Gacaliye^(Dear) , oo ay ku xigto gacaliye iyo gacaliye. Waxaad si lama filaan ah u noqon doontaa jacaylka noloshooda. Waxay bilaabi doonaan inay kuu soo diraan fariimo qiiro leh iyo fariimo muujinaya jacaylka ay kuu qabaan iyo inta ay kuu tabanayaan.

Waxaa laga yaabaa inay ku weydiiyaan sawiradaada dhow

Wax yar ka dib markay xoogaa kuugu soo dhawaadaan, waxay bilaabi doonaan inay dalbadaan sawiradaada qarsoon. Kharashka^(Online) shukaansiga ee khadka tooska ah maahan lacag. Ha u dirin mid ka mid ah sawiradaada qof kasta oo aadan la kulmin shaqsi ahaan.

Khayaanada waxay ciyaaraan shucuur xooggan

Si aad toos u noqoto, waa in aad ka xariifsan tahay khiyaanada si aad u aqoonsato isaga/iyada. Dadka caynkaas ah waxay kuu muujinayaan shucuur xooggan isla markiiba ka dib markaad bilowdo inaad la sheekeysato. Waxa laga yaabaa inay wadaagaan sheeko xanuun badan oo noloshooda ah ama waxay muujin karaan inay la ildaran yihiin cudur dilaa ah si ay u helaan naxariistaada oo ay raacdo kalsoonidaada. Waxaa laga yaabaa inay markaas ku weydiiyaan macluumaadkaaga xiriirka kale sida aqoonsigaaga xiriirka bulshada, lambarka taleefankaaga, aqoonsiga iimaylka iyo xitaa cinwaankaaga. Ha ku kadsoomin riwaayada qiiro leh oo waligaa ha wadaagin macluumaadkaaga xiriirka. Ku xaddid madal shukaansiga gaarka ah oo kaliya.

Khayaanada waxay u shaqeeyaan si adag si ay u helaan kalsoonidaada^(Trust)

Ha ku kadsoomin fariimaha shucuureed, gabayada, khadadka cheesy, iyo xitaa hadiyadaha. Khayaanada noocan oo kale ah waxay aad ugu dadaalaan inay kalsoonidaada helaan waxaana laga yaabaa inay bilowga hore hadiyado kuu soo diraan. Waxay ku daryeeli doonaan si dheeraad ah waxayna sidoo kale ku heli karaan wax ku saabsan dhowr maalmood gudahood.

Si sahal ah kulama kulmi doonaan

Si kasta oo aad ugu adkaysato haddii qofku yahay khayaano isaga/iyadu way iska ilaalinayaan shirarka marka hore. Waxa laga yaabaa inay u adeegsadaan khiyaamooyinka sida inay ka shaqeeyaan waddan shisheeye oo aanay runtii awoodi doonin inay kuu yimaadaan oo ay kula kulmaan. Mararka qaarkood waxa laga yaabaa inay sidoo kale ku tusaan tigidh duulimaad oo been abuur ah oo ay ku ballansan yihiin inay kula kulmaan balse ay ku qasbanaatay inay baajiyaan shaqo degdeg ah ama arrin caafimaad awgeed.

Lacag weydiiso

Sida ugu dhakhsaha badan ee ay dareemaan inaad ku jirto gacantooda, waxay naqshadayn doonaan sheeko been abuur ah si ay lacag kaaga helaan. Xaqiiqdi sheekadu waxay yeelan doontaa xagal shucuur ah oo kugu qasbi doonta shucuur ahaan. Waxaa laga yaabaa inay ku weydiiyaan inaad amaahiso xoogaa lacag ah dhowr maalmood iyagoo ku dhisaya sheeko been abuur ah halkan iyo halkaas. Waxa kale oo laga yaabaa inay ku weydiiyaan faahfaahinta kaarka deynta oo ku siinaya sababo aan caadi ahayn. Waxay kuu sheegi doonaan inay diyaar u yihiin inay nolol cusub kula bilaabaan laakiin si lama filaan ah ay u xayiran yihiin xoogaa dhaqaale xumo ah ka dibna raacaan riwaayadaha qiirada leh oo aad u soo dirto lacag tigidhkooda duulimaadka ama qaar kale oo xun. Waxa kale oo laga yaabaa inay ku weydiiyaan inaad u furto xisaab wadajir ah noloshaada mustaqbalka si wadajir ah iyo sidoo kale waxay ku shubi karaan xoogaa lacag ah si aad u kasbato kalsoonidaada. Laakin isla markaad lacag dhigato waxay la baxayaan dhammaan cadadka oo way libdhi doonaan.

Akhriso^(Read) : Waa maxay macnaha Catfish marka laga hadlayo shukaansiga onlineka ah ?

Maxaa la sameeyaa haddii lagu khiyaaneeyo?

Haddii aad dareento in lagugu khiyaaneeyay ama lagu dhibay qof kasta oo ku jira bogga shukaansiga, waxaad u sheegi kartaa bogga internetka. Shabakad kasta oo haasaawaha ah waxa ay leedahay qodob ka mid ah laadadka iyo ka hortagga khayaanada.

Haddii aad hore ula wadaagtay faahfaahinta bangigaaga ama faahfaahinta kaadhka deynta, la xidhiidh bangigaaga oo hel kaadhka si degdeg ah u xannib. Beddel dhammaan furahaaga internetka Haddii ay dhacdo dhibaatayn dheeraad ah, waxaad sidoo kale la xiriiri kartaa booliiska internetka oo aad xereyn kartaa cabasho leh tafaasiil buuxa oo ku saabsan tuuga.

Khiyaanada shukaansiga ee onlineka^{(Online Dating Scams)} ah ayaa maalinba maalinta ka danbeysa sii kordheysa balse qofku waxa uu iska ilaalin karaa khiyaanadan oo kale isaga oo taxadar dheeraad ah iska leh kana fogaada khaladaadka caanka ah ee lagu sameeyo shabakadaha Shukaansiga .

Akhri soo socda^{(Read next)} : Khayaanada Sextortion Online^{(Online Sextortion scams)} .

How to spot Online Dating Scams

Online Dating is one of the most common uses of the internet. Besides using the internet for our work, playing games, shopping, etc., millions of people use it to find the love of their life. While the social networking websites like Facebook and Instagram also play an important role in dating online, there are specific dating websites too. The number of such websites is actually increasing day by day and so are increasing the number of dating scams.

Online Dating Scams are on the rise these days and the scammers are really smart. It is not that you are stupid and thus you got scammed, but yes one can really avoid such scams just by being a bit extra watchful.

The scammers, especially the male scammers usually target middle-aged ladies and particularly the one who has good money. With their cheesy talks, they will first try to impress you and get closer and then will gradually strip all your assets. The case is actually similar to the female scammers too. If you are thinking that only a male scams girls/ladies, it is a myth. Girls or ladies are equally involved in such online dating scams.

In this article, we will talk about a few tips which can help you identify a scammer on online dating websites.

Tips to spot Online Dating Scams

Watch the profile carefully

The profile actually says everything. If you are a bit more careful, it is very easy to spot a fake profile. Check every detail properly, like their workplace, their family, etc. Scammers usually try to lure you with their wealth, thereby uploading the pictures with a huge house and lavish cars etc. For example, huge houses, big luxury cars, and more. This is all to give you an impression that such a rich guy/girl can’t/won’t cheat you. They usually mention themselves working in foreign countries or as military personnel or use the other trusted occupations.

Check out the photos

Photos actually are the best mode to check if a person is a scammer or not. Check all their photos carefully and you can find out if they are genuine pictures of morphed. Check their locations in the pictures carefully and see if it matches their proximity. Also, check if those pictures are available anywhere else on the internet. Download their profile image or any other pictures uploaded and use Google reverse image search.

They won’t send you pictures or come on video chat

Scammers won’t send you their pictures and won’t come on the video chat either. Because they are using some morphed pictures or using someone else’s picture illegitimately.

They are too quick

Such scammers are too quick. In just a few days of your friendship, they will start loving and missing you. Their every sentence will start with the words like Dear, followed by sweetheart and darlings. You suddenly will become the love of their life. They will start sending you emotional emails and messages showing their love for you and how much they miss you.

They may ask for your intimate pictures

Soon after getting a bit closer to you, they will start demanding for your intimate pictures. Online dating scam is not necessarily monetary. Do not send any of your intimate pictures to anyone you haven’t met personally.

Scammers play strong emotions

To be straight, you have to be cleverer than the scammer to identify him/her. Such people express strong emotions to you soon after you start chatting with them. They may either share some heartbreaking story of their life or may show themselves suffering from some lethal disease to gain your sympathy followed by your trust. They then may ask for your other contact details like your social networking ID, your phone number, email ID and even your address. Do not get fooled by such emotional drama and never share your contact details. Keep it limited to that particular dating platform only.

Scammers work hard to gain your Trust

Do not get fooled by the emotional messages, poetry, cheesy lines, and even by the gifts. Such scammers try hard to gain your trust and they may also send some gifts to you in the beginning. They will take extra care of you and may also get possessive about you in just a few days.

They won’t meet you easily

No matter how hard you insist if the person is a scammer he/she will keep avoiding the meetings initially. They may use the tricks like they are working in a foreign country and won’t really be able to come and meet you. Sometimes they may also show you a fake flight ticket they booked just to meet you but had to cancel because of some urgent work or health issue.

Ask for money

As soon as they feel you are on their hook, they will design some forge story to get money from you. The story will certainly have some emotional angle to force you emotionally. They might ask you to lend them some money for a few days by building some fake story here and there. They may also ask for your credit card details giving you some odd reasons. They will tell you that they are ready to start a new life with you but suddenly stuck in some financial crisis and then follows the emotional drama and you send them money for their flight tickets or some other crap. They may also ask you to open a joint account for your future life together and also may deposit some funds in it to gain your trust. But as soon as you deposit money they will withdraw all amount and vanish away.

Read: What does Catfish mean in an online dating context?

What to do if you are scammed?

If you feel you are scammed or getting harassed by anyone on the dating website, you can report it to the website. Every dating website has a clause of kicking out and blocking scammers.

If you have already shared your bank details or credit card details, contact your bank and get the card blocked immediately. Change all your online passwords. In case of further harassment, you can also contact the cyber police and file a complaint with full details about the scammer.

Online Dating Scams are increasing day by day but one can avoid such scam just by being extra careful and avoiding some common mistakes done on Dating websites.

Read next: Online Sextortion scams.

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