Inaad saaxiibo samaysato sida qof weyn waa adag tahay. Dadka intooda badan waxay samaystaan ​​saaxiibtimo nolosha oo dhan ah dugsiga ama kulliyadda^(college) , laakiin waxaa jira sababo badan oo laga yaabo inaadan maanta la xidhiidhin asxaabtaas. 

U guurista magaalo cusub iyo kala fogaanshiyaha sababo kala duwan dartood waa wax iska caadi ah. Haddii aad hadda isku aragto adiga oo aan lahayn saaxiib aad la wadaagto, raadinta saaxiibtinimo ee internetka waa ikhtiyaar macquul ah. Haddana halkan, sida adduunka khadka tooska ah, waa inaad si sax ah u ciyaarsiisaa kaadhadhkaaga haddii aad raadinayso inaad la xiriirto dad cusub. 

Haddaba haddii aad rabto in aad ogaato sida loo sameeyo saaxiibo onlayn, halkan waxaa ah qaar ka mid ah talooyin wax ku ool ah si ay u dhacdo.

Ma rabtaa saaxiibo ^(Friends)khadka ^(Online)tooska ah^(Offline) ama khadka tooska ah ?

Waxa ugu horreeya ee aad u baahan tahay inaad tixgeliso waa haddii aad inta badan rabto inaad saaxiibo la sameyso dadka khadka tooska ah ee aad qorsheyneyso inaad internetka la joogto ama haddii aad rabto kulanno nololeed oo dhab ah. Sababta ay tani muhiim u tahay waa sababtoo ah waxaad haysataa kaliya waqti aad u badan oo aad ku raadiso saaxiibtinimada.

Haddii aad rabto inaad ka tagto suurtagalnimada shirarka nolosha dhabta ah furan, waxaad u baahan tahay inaad diirada saarto dadka jir ahaan kuu heli kara. Sida kuwa isku magaalada deggan.

Haddii aad raadinayso kaliya dadka inay ku jiraan saaxiibtinimada qalin-jabinta dhijitaalka ah, markaa aad ayay muhiim u tahay halka ay adduunka ka joogaan. In kasta oo laga yaabo inaad rabto inaad raadiso dad ku sugan aag waqti la mid ah kuwaaga, haddii aad rabto wax suurtagal ah isdhexgalka wakhtiga dhabta ah.

Ka ilaali Jaceylka

Waxaa jira farqi weyn oo u dhexeeya raadinta inaad saaxiibo ku sameysato khadka iyo raadinta dadka aad rabto inaad shukaansato oo aad xiriir jacayl la yeelato. 

Haddii aad tiraahdo waxaad saaxiibo u raadineysaa sidii jaceylka oo kale, markaas kaliya maahan daacadla'aan laakiin sidoo kale waxaad dumineysaa labada gool. Haddii aad internetka ka raadinayso jacayl^{(looking for romance online)} , ka hor tag oo ka faa'iidayso meelaha internetka ee si gaar ah loogu talagalay ujeedadaas. Naftaada^(Don) ha galin meelo online ah oo ay dadku rabaan in ay iska joogaan oo ay ka sheekeystaan ​​hiwaayadaha ama waxa ay xiiseeyaan. Ha^(Don) ka dhigin wax yaab leh!

Ku Xidhnow Dadka Heerkaaga

Xiisaha la wadaago^(Shared) , waayo-aragnimada nolosha ee isku midka ah iyo hab-nololeedyada isbarbardhigga ah ayaa dhammaantood ah qodobbo muhiim ah oo lagu dhisayo xiriirro macno leh. Taasi^(Which) waa sababta ay tahay inaad u raadiso dad kula wadaaga qaddar aad u badan oo isku mid ah dhammaan saddexda qaybood.

Ma aha oo kaliya inay ku siiso waxyaabo badan oo aad ku bilawdo oo aad joogteyso xidhiidhka, sidoo kale waxay la macno tahay inaad u badan tahay inaad si dhab ah u xiisaynayso qofka kale, taas oo noo keenta tilmaanta xigta ee muhiimka ah.

Xiise Ka Qaado Qofka Kale^(Person)

Ma jiro wax ka sii fogaansho ah oo aan ahayn qof kaliya oo naftiisa ka hadlaya. Haddana dadka badankiisu waxay jecel yihiin inay sameeyaan! Nolosha dhabta ah iyo khadka internetka labadaba, waa khiyaamo aad u fiican inaad iska ilaaliso inaad ka hadasho naftaada ilaa uu qofka kale si toos ah u waydiiyo.

Markaad qof la sheekaysanayso (online ama meel kale) ha sugin oo kaliya in wakhtigaaga aad hadlayso. U fiirso waxay yiraahdeen ka bacdina waydii inay faahfaahiyaan. Ma dhahayno inaad iska dhigto mid xiisaynaysa ama aad u gudubto oo aad waydiiso iyaga, laakiin isku day inaad ka dhigto mid ku saabsan qofka kale. 

Ma aha oo kaliya in tani ay ku siinayso macluumaad dheeraad ah oo ku saabsan haddii saaxiibtinimada khadka tooska ah ay suurtagal tahay ama xitaa la jeclaan karo, waxay ku jeclaan doontaa qofka kale adiga. Maadaama dadka intooda badan ay jecel yihiin inay ka hadlaan naftooda, waxaad siin kartaa fursado badan oo ay sidaas ku sameeyaan waxayna u badan tahay inay ku raaxaysan doonaan samayntooda. 

Qodobbada dabiiciga ah ee wada hadalka halkaas oo aad ku biirin karto fikradahaaga^(opinions) , aragtidaada iyo khibradahaaga ayaa dhici doona. Kaliya waa inaysan ka badnaan kala badh sarifka! 

Ha Noqon Mid Gurguurta

Tani waxay u badan tahay inay tahay talo nololeed guud oo wanaagsan, laakiin onlaynka arrinta gurguurta waxay soo afjari kartaa saaxiibtinimada gaysashada. Maxay dadku ka helaan? Hal shay, inaad si degdeg ah ugu socoto habka saaxiibtinimada, baahida xad dhaafka ah iyo rajo-xumada ayaa dhammaantood ah siyaabo sugan oo lagu diri karo saaxiibo suurtagal ah oo u ordaya buuraha.

Waxa ugu muhiimsan waa in la ogolaado in xiriirku u kobco si dabiici ah. Noqo qof wada sheekaysta oo wanaagsan. Ha la wadaagin waxyaabo gaar ah oo cajiib ah ama ha waydiin ka hor intaadan gaarin heerka kalsoonida ee habboon ee qofka kale. Tan ugu muhiimsan, ha ku xidhin saaxiibtinimada waajibaad cad ama si maldahan! 

Si kale haddii loo dhigo, ku hay mid caadi ah ilaa inta uu qofka kale u baahan yahay. Haddii ay taasi ka dhigan tahay saaxiibtinimo aan caadi ahayn online on si joogto ah, ka dibna sidaas waa. Saaxiibtinimada caadiga ah iyo kuwa qoto-dheerba labaduba way kuu fiican yihiin waxayna jiri karaan dhinac-dhinac.

Isticmaal Apps Friends Plato

Sida ay u jiraan codsiyo dadka ka caawinaya in ay jacayl ka helaan khadka, waxaa jira runtii websites, apps iyo adeegyo u heellan in ay ka caawiyaan dadka si ay ula kulmaan yoolka cad ee samaynta saaxiibo. Mid ka mid ah faa'iidooyinka apps kuwan waa in ay mamnuucaan xodxodashada ama hawlaha kale ee shukaansi la xiriira. Markaa haddii aad saaxiibo raadinayso, waxay kaa caawin kartaa kala saarista dadka wax kale raadinaya.

Patok^(Patook) malaha waa tusaalaha ugu fiican uguna diirada badan. Waxay u shaqeysaa wax badan sida app shukaansi , oo leh kulammo suurtagal ah oo muujinaya oo aad ku dhufanayso bidix ama midig iyaga. Marka uu jiro xiriir labada dhinac ah, waxaad heli doontaa fursad aad ku jebiso barafka oo aad bilowdo inaad wada sheekeysato. 

Marka aad xoogaa wada hadasho, Patok^(Patook) waxa uu kugu dhiiri galin doonaa in aad wada hadalkaaga u qaadato goob kale ama xitaa nolosha dhabta ah. miyay shaqaysaa? Waxaan dhab ahaantii saaxiibo nolosha dhabta ah la yeelannay Patok^(Patook) ! Markaa taas ka samee waxaad doonto.

Bumble waa madal kale oo bixiya adeega saaxiib platonic, laakiin sidoo kale waxay bixiyaan dhaqanka shukaansi app sidoo. Nooca saaxiibada-kaliya ee Bumble waxaa loo yaqaan Bumble BFF waxayna bixisaa hab kale oo aad kula kulanto dadka ku nool xaafaddaada kuwaas oo sidoo kale raadinaya inay saaxiibo samaystaan, iyada oo aan cadaadiska shukaansiga lagu tuuray isku dhafka!

Badbaadada iyo Kulamada Nolosha Dhabta ah

Markaa aynu nidhaahno waxaad saaxiib ku samaysatay khadka, waxaana iman doona wakhtiga aad labadiinuba dareentaan inaad doonaysaan inaad nolosha dhabta ah ku kulantaan. Tani waa tallaabo weyn! Kullanka^(Meeting) khadka tooska ah waa hal shay, laakiin joogitaanka qof joogistiisa aad ayay uga duwan tahay. 

Marka laga soo tago dhammaan walaacyada caadiga ah ee bini'aadamka ee la socda dhammaan cilaaqaadka dadka dhexdooda, waxaad sidoo kale leedahay lakab dheeraad ah oo walaacyo badbaado leh. Maadaama aadan hubin in qofka aad la kulantay online uu yahay dhab ahaantii cidda ay sheegaan inay yihiin ama aysan ka mid ahayn khiyaamooyinka kala duwan^{(various scams)} , sida kalluumeysiga. 

Taas oo macnaheedu yahay in ay macno badan samaynayso in la qaato taxadar macquul ah marka aad la kulanto saaxiib aad ku samaysay online nolosha dhabta ah markii ugu horeysay. Waa kuwan qaar muhiim ah:

• ^(Meet)Meel fagaare ah kula kulan dadka kale ee ag jooga.
• Kaxayso saaxiib ama xubin qoyskaaga ah.
• Dadka u sheeg goorta iyo meesha aad la kulanto saaxiibkaaga khadka tooska ah.
• Sidoo kale ha ogaadaan sida uu qofkani u eg yahay iyo waxa uu yahay magaciisa.

Waxaad u baahan doontaa inaad hesho caddayn gacan-koowaad ah oo muujinaysa in qofka aad la kulmayso uu dhab ahaantii yahay cidda ay sheegaan inuu yahay. Uma baahnid inaad aad uga cadhooto arrintan. Kala hadal meesha ay ka shaqeeyaan ama waxay baranayaan, tusaale ahaan. Dabcan, waa inaad bixisaa macluumaad isku mid ah oo kugu saabsan si aad u dhisto kalsoonida jihada kale!

Waxa ugu muhiimsan waa inaad aaminto mindhicirkaaga. Haddi ay wax kaa xumaadaan kulankaaga qof ahaaneed, ha ka labalabayn inaad baxdo! Nasiib wacan samaynta saaxiibo badan online!

How To Make Friends Online

Making friendѕ as an adult is hard. Most рeople form lifelong friendships in school or college, but there are many reasons why you may no longer be in touch with those friends today. 

Moving to a new city and drifting apart for various reasons are pretty normal. If you now find yourself without a buddy to hang out with, looking for friendship online is a viable option. Yet here, as in the offline world, you have to play your cards right if you’re looking to connect with new people. 

So if you want to know how to make friends online, here are some practical tips to make it happen.

Do You Want Online or Offline Friends?

The first thing you need to consider is whether you mainly want to make friends with people online who you only plan to hang out with online or if you want eventual real-life meetups. The reason this matters is because you only have so much time to pursue friendships.

If you want to leave the possibility of real-life meetings open, you need to focus on people who are physically accessible to you. Such as those who live in the same city as you.

If you’re only looking for people to be in a digital pen-pal friendship, then it’s less important where in the world they are. Though you might want to look for people in a similar time zone to your own, if you want any possibility of a real-time interaction.

Keep Romance Out Of It

There’s a big difference between looking to make friends online and looking for people who you want to date and have a romantic relationship with. 

If you say you’re looking for friends as a pretense for romance, then you’re not only being dishonest but also sabotaging both goals. If you’re looking for romance online, be upfront about it and make use of online spaces designed specifically for that purpose. Don’t insinuate yourself into online spaces where people just want to hang out and chat about their hobbies or interests. Don’t make it weird!

Connect With People On Your Level

Shared interests, similar life experiences and comparable lifestyles are all important factors in building meaningful relationships. Which is why you should look for people who share a significant amount of similarity with you in all three areas.

Not only does it give you plenty of material to initiate and maintain contact, it also means you’ll be more likely to genuinely take interest in the other person, which brings us to the next important tip.

Take an Interest in the Other Person

There’s nothing more off-putting than someone who only talks about themselves. Yet most people like to do it! In both real life and online, it’s a great trick to refrain from talking about yourself unless the other person asks directly.

When having a conversation with someone (online or elsewhere) don’t just wait for your turn to speak. Pay attention to what they’ve said and then ask them to elaborate. We’re not saying you should pretend to be interested or that you should go overboard and interrogate them, but try to make it about the other person. 

Not only does this give you more information about whether an online friendship is possible or even desirable, it will endear the other person to you. Since most people like to talk about themselves, you can give them plenty of opportunities to do so and they’ll most likely enjoy doing it. 

Natural points in the conversation where you can contribute your own opinions, views and experiences will happen. It just shouldn’t be more than half of the exchange! 

Don’t Be a Creep

This is probably a good general life tip, but online the creep factor can bring a fast end to a budding friendship. What do people find creepy? For one thing, going too fast on the course of a friendship, being overly needy and radiating desperation are all surefire ways to send potential friends running for the hills.

The most important thing is to let the relationship evolve naturally. Be a good conversationalist. Don’t share incredibly personal things or ask them before you’ve reached an appropriate level of trust with the other person. Most importantly, don’t attach explicit or implied obligations to the friendship! 

In other words, keep it casual for as long as the other person needs it to be. If that means a casual friendship online on a permanent basis, then so be it. Both casual and deeper friendships are good for you and can exist side-by-side.

Use Platonic Friend Apps

Just as there are applications to help people find love online, there are actually websites, apps and services dedicated to helping people meet with the explicit goal of making friends. One of the advantages of these apps is that they prohibit flirting or other dating-related activities. So if you’re looking for friends, it can help filter out people who are looking for something else.

Patook is probably the best and most focused example. It works a lot like a dating app, with potential matches showing up and you swiping left or right on them. When there’s a mutual connection, you’ll get an opportunity to break the ice and start having a chat. 

Once you’ve talked a bit, Patook will encourage you to take your conversation onto another platform or even real life. Does it work? We’ve actually made real-life friends with Patook! So make of that what you will.

Bumble is another platform offering a platonic friend service, but they also offer a traditional dating app as well. The friends-only version of Bumble is called Bumble BFF and it offers another way to meet people who live in your neighborhood who are also looking to hang out and make friends, without the pressures of dating thrown in the mix!

Safety and Real-life Meetings

So let’s say you’ve made a friend online and the time comes when you both feel you want to meet in real life. This is a big step! Meeting online is one thing, but being in someone’s presence is very different. 

On top of all the normal human anxieties that go with all interpersonal relationships, you also have an added layer of safety concerns. Since you can’t be sure the person you met online is really who they say they are or aren’t part of various scams, such as catfishing. 

Which means it makes a lot of sense to take sensible precautions when meeting a friend you made online in real life for the first time. Here are a few important ones:

• Meet in a public place with other people around.
• Take a friend or family member with you.
• Let people know when and where you’re meeting your online friend.
• Also let them know what this person looks like and what their name is.

You’ll want to get some first-hand evidence that the person you’re meeting is really who they say they are. You don’t have to be too blatant about this. Chat about where they work or what they’re studying, for example. Of course, you should offer the same sort of information about yourself to build trust in the other direction!

The most important thing is to trust your gut. If something feels off about your in-person meeting, don’t hesitate to leave! Good luck making more friends online!

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